People look past the signs of abuse. I know that there were many signs that I left out in the open, nobody picked up ob. Things like drawing naked people as big as I was at the age of four on my bedroom walls, i wetted the bed until I was 12, my detachment from kids my own age, in my school work there were drawings erased or drawn over... All those signs and still nobody knew he was molesting me. At that age ir anyat that matter you don't know its wrong unless your taught right and wrong. I suggest that everybody talk to your children about good touches and bad touches. Educate and prepare them with the skills needed to deal with situations like these incase it ever comes to. If not the affects last a life time!!!!